Is it the way you wish for or you've offtrack to somewhere else
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Don't have any idea how and what is your life?
It's ok, if you know the way your life are, I think you should cherish what you looking for; If you've gotten into the wrong way and you've realized it, perhaps it is the time to stave off; For those who still don't have any idea what is your life is, perhaps you need to have a small change in the way you live, try changing the way you handle your daily timetable for instance the time you wake up, for meal, outdoor activities, attitudes, the way you think, relationships etc. I think we as human, not fond to be 'unchangable' but if someone tends to change in the way he wants to, he will, and he will be.
What im trying to say here is, we have the need to change from time to time. Change for the sake of better life? Better relationships? Better self-conscious? We can change, we are neutral to reform as we want, just believe that as long as you alive. Somehow we declined to change even its a small change in part of our life. But, once we encountered something that really will cause you catastrophe, by that time, we will change unconditionally. This is the way human is, as always. Once you've been bitten, you know the pain.
Do it naturally, just take some time as short as 5 minutes of serenity or calm thinking something or flashback some matters you've done. Those moment should I interpret it as "self-learning-experience". Once you think back, you should have idea how to aware, realize, redo, overcome in the similiar situation. I think it is a good way for self learning, also able to ameliorate your self-conscious. No harm right...
I did some several changes, I make a daily schedule in note form, I read other materials that I interested much, I change the way I study, I change my way taking a better and healthier meal especially breakfast, I try to decline supper, I try to think from different perspective, I pursue my short period target, I dare to ask something clouds me, I speak in a rational in the way I think, and I try to write more.
Somehow, everything comes with an opposite way, something you wish to change, in opposite way something you would let it to stay as it is. Im sure that something that remains unchange is something good or beneficial. When time comes, we also need to learn to change. It is the law of the universe, every moment is changing, even the time, world, human, everything. So, when something changes to a worse one, just change in order to overcome it. Change is a solution, probably, the best way.
Change to a good way or a bad way just depends on us, just remember the way you change it benefits to people, environment, and most importantly - conscience.
What im trying to say here is, we have the need to change from time to time. Change for the sake of better life? Better relationships? Better self-conscious? We can change, we are neutral to reform as we want, just believe that as long as you alive. Somehow we declined to change even its a small change in part of our life. But, once we encountered something that really will cause you catastrophe, by that time, we will change unconditionally. This is the way human is, as always. Once you've been bitten, you know the pain.
Do it naturally, just take some time as short as 5 minutes of serenity or calm thinking something or flashback some matters you've done. Those moment should I interpret it as "self-learning-experience". Once you think back, you should have idea how to aware, realize, redo, overcome in the similiar situation. I think it is a good way for self learning, also able to ameliorate your self-conscious. No harm right...
I did some several changes, I make a daily schedule in note form, I read other materials that I interested much, I change the way I study, I change my way taking a better and healthier meal especially breakfast, I try to decline supper, I try to think from different perspective, I pursue my short period target, I dare to ask something clouds me, I speak in a rational in the way I think, and I try to write more.
Somehow, everything comes with an opposite way, something you wish to change, in opposite way something you would let it to stay as it is. Im sure that something that remains unchange is something good or beneficial. When time comes, we also need to learn to change. It is the law of the universe, every moment is changing, even the time, world, human, everything. So, when something changes to a worse one, just change in order to overcome it. Change is a solution, probably, the best way.
Change to a good way or a bad way just depends on us, just remember the way you change it benefits to people, environment, and most importantly - conscience.
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A good post!
Sometimes, it is that not easy to change something as what we wished to. Inertia is the answer, I guess.
Something needs to be sacrificed to gain other thing in return. So, if that person is willingly to invest his perseverance to profit a positive change, nothing seems to be a hindrance.
And from ur post, I can see that u've spent much determination to change in a good way.
I think I need to learn from u. I would say my life is rather messy. Spare me some of ur experiences. Seriously. =)
"if someone tends to change in the way he wants to, he will, and he will be." This is a beautiful sentences quote from your post.
Agree, human tend to change in order to adapt to the new environment. The matter is, are we changing ourselves towards the positive side or vice versa? That is the only concern. =D